#34. How I Made Decisions About Sex (Parents/Adults)

This Conversation Will Help You…

1. Share values and norms that went into decision-making
2. Share how they feel now about the decisions
3. Express what they think are important things to consider – values etc.

Think About This First

•  This conversation is designed for parents, guardians, or supportive adults to share their own experiences with decision-making around sex and intimacy.

Having the Conversation

Start Here:

I knew I was ready to have sex when.... 

Here are some things that influenced my decision-making:

Here is what was considered normal when I was your age:

How are these things different now for you?

Continue:

Here is what I thought then, and here is what I think and feel now about the decisions I made:

The values that helped me decide were...

Are there any differences or similarities between my values then and your values now?

Keep Talking:

Here are things I think you should consider:

This is why I want you to consider them:

What questions do you want to ask me?